A meaning post by someone.
Credits to W.J
he is from chinese studies
Guess he wont even see my blog too. LOLL

A well written thing and i feel that its very very true.

If you understand Chinese, you will apprehend the meaning behind it. : D
I believe in our lives, we always compete for everything. Our money, time, friendship, marks or even love.
Have anyone thought that its so ttiring to compete and compete? Sometimes just because of this little misunderstanding, tada, your friendship leaves a scar behind, Trust is gone, starts to wear a mask and no longer will they be as close. Is it the problem with people nowadays that they cannot forgive and forget or is it the mistake one has make that makes it so so hard to forgive? There is always a saying: " everyone is imperfect and that includes me and you." So, who dares to say that they are perfect? If you happened to be the one, i am glad enough to lift both my hands and legs up and proclaim u as the saint of this universe. :D
People advice, misunderstanding? u heack care or u just shoot back. Heck care is an easy solution but how about shooting back? When would it end? or should i put it HOW would it end? it would just make both parties life more miserable and bitter. so, the next question, what for? Jus because they want to " COMPETE". Sometimes i ponder, in the end whether you win or lose, u would not stand to win fabulous prizes. The most it jus a sense of satisfaction u feel. But, is tha good? Feeling a sense of satisfaction doesnt make someone feel contented but more the more, feeling that he/she is much superior in competing, will seek areas and ways where there is opportunities for competition. Sadly, they never know they are already starting to becoming ignorant and arrogant. : D

“输赢真的那么重要吗？”

当友谊成为了输赢的关系，
这也说明这份友谊是如此地
脆弱。

甲认识乙已有一年多
从陌生人到好同学
好同学到好朋友（至少甲把乙当好朋友）
甲的心事、秘密
都只有乙
最清楚

可是
美好的东西往往很早就枯萎
他们或许太了解彼此
渐渐地
他们的性格开始有了冲突

她的霸道
她的野蛮
她的小姐脾气
甲忍受

他不善解人意
他的暴力倾向
他的工作方式
乙忍受

终于火山爆发了
甲和乙终于受不了彼此的性格
甲正式走他自己的阳光道
乙也正是走她自己的独木桥
他们的友谊正式决裂。

是否是冷战
谁也不清楚
就连甲自己也不了解
他起初只觉得乙这次太过分了
他再也无法忍受原谅乙。

可是后来甲的怒消了
但他知道如果他先向乙低头认错
以后乙更加会骑在他头上
而且甲也发现
周围的朋友常要甲先对乙开口说话
然后渐渐他们也开始疏远他
似乎是要为乙出口气。

起初甲对乙只有怒气
但后来甲对乙
甚至对周围的朋友
开始有了恨意

他恨为什么朋友只站在乙的立场去判断
为何从不站自己的立场去观察
他知道在利益上
乙能给的比他多
………………
了解了。

甲不敢奢望乙会向自己认错
他也了解乙不会这样

有一天
他与另外一对朋友突然聊起这件事
聊了很久
这个朋友忽然在临走前对他说
“输赢真的那么重要吗？”

甲没有回答
这问题也开始在他脑海盘旋着
“输赢真的那么重要吗？”

忽然
甲露出了一丝微笑
他终于发现
原来友谊
从认识到了解
其实根本就处于输赢的关系
脆弱